To date Bessie Story has made 135 personal appearances!
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Hickory Stick Bookshop
Washington Depot, CT
October 26, 2018
Rumsey Hall School
Washington Depot, CT
October 29th, 2018
“Bessie and Tom Farmen captivated our School audience. The story of Bessie living with her blindness reminded the community that we need to be open and kind to everyone we meet. We showered Bessie with love because we knew she was blind. We were reminded to do that for people in our lives who are also struggling with their challenges. We loved learning about Bessie's life adventures and following her journey through videos, images and stories. The highlight was watching her try to catch the cookie she flipped off her nose!”
Liz Butler, Administrator, Rumsey Hall School - Washington Depot, CT
Disnard Elementary School
Claremont, NH
December 13, 2018
The 4th grade students at Disnard Elementary in Claremont had a warm welcome for Bessie, Tom and Ashley when they visited. Students marveled at Bessie’s independence and confidence despite her blindness. The visit reinforced the recently learned lessons on empathy and acceptance too. A great reminder for all of us to be kind to one another and man’s best friend too!
Kathleen Buckley, Grade 4 Teacher
Woodcrest Village
New London, NH
January 15th @ 3p.m.
Our residents and staff thoroughly enjoyed meeting Bessie and hearing her story of loss, courage and perseverance. This is a story that gives us courage through our own life struggles.
Donna Baker-Hartwell, Director of Activities
Thornton Central School
February 19th @ 8:45am
Our elementary school thoroughly enjoyed Bessie's visit! The Farmens spoke lovingly of Bessie's example of perseverance when faced with adversity and watching videos of Bessie putting those words into action was powerful for our students. The message of acceptance of and respect for all people, no matter the ability, supported our school's Community of Caring theme. We wholeheartedly recommend this assembly program: The message is a powerful one, appropriate for all aged students..and staff too!
Danielle Morse, School Psychologist/Counselor - Thornton Central School, Thornton, NH
Vilas Elementary School
March 21 @ 9am
We held a presentation by local author, Tom Farmen, who has written a book titled BESSIE'S STORY - Watching the Lights Go Out. He and his wife Ashley have an almost 10-year-old chocolate Lab who slowly went blind over a three year period. This book, and their presentation, show how they embraced this as a chance to learn from Bessie about facing challenges. Bessie has not slowed down at all. She's an outstanding Lab who graciously showed the students that despite her disability, nothing stops her from leading a perfectly content and fulfilling life. I witnessed many students smiling, loving and showing happiness that is sometimes hidden within them. The love and warmth that Bessie, Tom and Ashley exude is simply wonderful . It is our hope that our students will come away with the lasting thought to "Be Like Bessie."
Jennifer Aiken, School Librarian
Summercrest Senior Living Community
Newport, NH
March 25 @ 2:45
We at Summercrest Senior Living Community in Newport, NH want to thank you for a wonderful afternoon. Bessie is an inspiration and such a HAPPY girl. I had Residents come to me after the presentation and say that they had tears in their eyes when Tom was reading parts of the book. They loved seeing Bessie so full of life, even when her world is so dark. BESSIE’S STORY - Watching the Lights Go Out reminds us that we have to face our disabilities with a smile, just like Bessie. She is a mentor for living life to the fullest and aging gracefully, no matter what happens. Thank you for telling Bessie’s Story. We could all feel the love in the room.
Barbara Rabtoy, Activities Director
Toadstool Bookshop
March 28 @ 6pm
Thank you so much for choosing The Toadstool Bookshop in Keene for your event. We appreciate you (and Bessie) taking time to share your book with our readers and we hope you will consider us again for any books you may publish in the future! Be sure to stay in touch and good luck with any future endeavors! Best,
Jasmine ( Events Coordinator) and the Keene Crew
Walpole Elementary School
April 9th, 1919
Bessie’s Story engaged both students and staff, expressing lessons that are essential to life. As a middle school educator, I found this talk especially relevant and helpful as a way to use a wonderful story, such as Bessie’s, as a vehicle to teach about emotional intelligence. Bessie and Tom are wonderful teachers of what it means to enjoy life and not merely to endure challenges, but to embrace them.
Jacob Gagnon, M. Ed., Language Arts Teacher (6-8) - Walpole Elementary School
Gibson’s Bookstore
April 11th @ 6pm
You were a delight to host (and the cookies were delicious, I can confirm) and we so adored sweet Bessie. Everybody left with smiles on their faces.
Best,
Elisabeth Jewell, Events Coordinator
The Yankee Bookshop
April 18th @ 6pm
“Thank you so much for everything! It was an all around great experience for everyone, and we're happy that it worked out so well! You were great guests, highly professional and personable, and Bessie, what can I say, she was amazing!” Kristian Preylowski, Co-owner, Yankee Bookshop
American Association of University Women
An Evening with Keene Area Authors
April 26th @ 6pm
“Keene Area AAUW (American Association of University Women) invited three authors to speak at our recent annual "Evening with Authors" event in support of our scholarship program. One of those authors was Thomas Farmen who wrote in his book Bessie's Story: Watching the Lights Out about his dog Bessie, a chocolate lab, who lost her sight, providing life lessons on the art of aging gracefully. We so enjoyed Tom's presentation, along with slides and videos of Bessie, who attended the event. Tom concluded with an important message for us: "Be like Bessie!" We are so glad Tom agreed to come help us with our event. We learned about living with a special dog and growing old gracefully. Thank you, Tom, Ashley and Bessie!”
Vesta Hornbeck, President AAUW, Keene, NH
Shedd-Porter Memorial Library
Alstead, NH
Thursday, May 2 @6:00 pm
Kearsarge Regional Elementary School at Bradford
Friday, May 3 @ 1:30 pm
Tom and Ashley Farmen and their dog Bessie visited our school this week. Our students and teachers enjoyed hearing the story of Bessie and the challenges she has overcome. Bessie has adapted to blindness without missing a beat. Her perseverance and playful demeanor reminds us to make the most of difficult circumstances. Tom's presentation about Bessie's journey to blindness was positive and uplifting. Our students loved seeing the pictures and videos of Bessie. Having the opportunity to meet and play with Bessie was a huge hit!!
Andrew Chouinard, Principal, Kearsarge Regional Elementary School at Bradford, May 3, 2019
Abbott Library, Sunapee, NH
Wednesday, May 22
South elementary School
Andover, MA, May 24, 2019
Woodgate Views Book Club
Wednesday, May 29, Keene, NH
“We were delighted to have Tom and Bessie visit our Woodgate Views Book Group. The book enlightened us as to the gradual loss of Bessie's sight. With many references to human lifetime thoughts, the book was highly praised by our members. Bessie made her way around our group, visiting, finding treats and showing off her tricks. She is a delightful and charming girl and Tom is an exceptional speaker. Thank you for the opportunity to read a wonderful book and have a very special meeting.” Susan McGinni
Tenney Grammar School
Friday, May 31, 2019 , Methuen, MA
“Tom and Bessie’s visit made a lasting impression on both the students and teachers at the Tenney Grammar School. From the moment she stepped on the school grounds, she was the center of attention. Everyone was drawn to her! Bessie’s story truly resonated. The way she has tackled and surmounted every obstacle in her path has inspired us to do the same. We all left the auditorium with the desire to “be like Bessie” - spread kindness and light, keep going no matter the challenge and always keep your head up! So grateful to Tom and Bessie for this special visit!” Rebecca Devendorf, Sixth Grade Teacher
Woodstock Terrace
Wednesday, June 5 @ 3:00 p.m.
“Our residents really enjoyed meeting Bessie and Tom. They were very moved by her story.” Michelle Tuttle, Program Coordinator
Phoenix Books
Chester, VT Thursday, June 13 @ 6:00 p.m.
Brattleboro Senior Center
Brattleboro, VT, June 19 @ 1:00 p.m.
Quail Hollow Senior Living Community
Lebanon, NH, June 27 @ 11:00 a.m.
“It was our pleasure to host this event. Tom is very engaging, and quite honestly I feel the resident's would have listened to the entire book. The story and life lessons are invaluable no matter what your age is. I cannot wait for my 4 children ages 14-22, and my husband to read the book! It will be the Hine's summer of 2019 required reading.”
Dawn Downey-Hines, Community Mgr., Quail Hollow
New London Rotary Club, New London, NH
Friday, July 12, New London Hospital @ 7:30 a.m.
“Tom, Ashley and Bessie shared the book Bessie’s Story - Watching the Lights Go Out at the weekly meeting of the New London Rotary Club. Tom’s chat captivated the audience with an eloquent and heart-touching story chronicling their furry companion's gradual loss of sight. Despite such adversity, Bessie has managed to continue thriving while serving up lessons in humility, perseverance, acceptance and joy.” Lou Botta, recent past President, New London Rotary Club
John H. Whitaker Place
Concord, NH, Thursday, July 25 @ 2:30 p.m.
“It really affected my mom. She said people were coming up to her and saying that it was the best presentation that they attended at Whitaker. Thank you for sharing such a message of perseverance and hope. ❤” From a resident’s daughter
Margaret Pratt Community
Bradford, VT Friday, July 26 @ 10:00 a.m
“Tom does a great job with the crowd, and Bessie is the shining star. The afternoon of the event our residents were abuzz with excitement. It was wonderful and exactly what I was expecting. What I didn’t expect were the continued conversations, the special stories of blind pets, and the ‘aha’ moments people had in their own lives about their abilities changing. Since the discussion last week I’ve listened to personal stories, I’ve wiped away sad and happy tears and we’ve shared hugs and fellowship. I can never thank Tom, Ashley, or Bessie enough for the gift they gave us.” Jamie Rogers -Sales and Marketing Director
“Our community cannot thank Tom, Ashley and Bessie enough for taking time to light up our aging worlds. The family we share here at Margaret Pratt Community has had nothing shy of a magical time reading, relating, and sharing the stories Tom brings to life through his pet, Bessie. Until next time, keep eating the cookies!” Samantha Smith -Resident Services Director
“I’m glad I purchased the book because now I can enjoy more details which Tom happily shared with us during his visit.” Verna Carter -Resident
“Tom was very sociable and to hear his story was something else! I hope he and his family come back again soon.” Helena Magher -Resident
Wyonegonic Camps, Denmark, ME
Thursday, August 1 @ 1:15
"The campers loved Bessie's visit. The life lessons that Tom shared about his journey with Bessie mirror many of the lessons we teach at Wyonegonic Camps. We can't wait for Bessie to visit next summer and share her wisdom!" Whitney Ryan, Director
Good Day Respite Program, Lake Sunapee VNA & Hospice
Kearsarge Presbyterian Church, New London, NH - Thursday, August 15 @ 2:15 p.m.
“It was wonderful to have you as guests at the Good Day Respite Program today! You were so well-received ... it was clear everyone enjoyed Bessie and her story!” Cathy Raymond, Lake Sunapee Region VNA and Hospice
Chapin Senior Center
37 Pleasant Street, New London, NH - Tuesday, August 20 @ 1:30 p.m.
Pleasant View Center
227 Pleasant Street, Concord, NH 03301 - September 5, 2019 @ 1:30 p.m
Ingalls Memorial Library
Rindge, NH - Friday, September 27 @ 12:00 noon
“Bessie's story is one we can all learn from. This amazing chocolate lab started losing her vision when she was 4 years old, but she hasn't let that stop her, or taint her view of the world she lives in. Her tail never stops wagging, and she doesn't let obstacles in her way prevent her from traveling the path she is on. At 10 she's clearly just a pup who loves life and all its magic. The mutual respect between Bessie and her people will give you pause. I highly recommend this program.” Donna Straitiff, Librarian
Wilmot Public Library
11 North Wilmot Road, Wilmot, NH 03287 - Tuesday, October 8 @ 7:00 p.m.
'“Dear Tom, Ashley and “BESSIE,
Thank you so much for visiting the Wilmot Public Library on October 8th. I feel that it was such a meaningful and inspirational night! We all can be more like Bessie!. I was so happy to meet the three of you and I’m sure everyone felt the same way. Thank you.” Barbara Wiggin, LIbrary Trustee
“Ashley, Tom, and Bessie certainly softened my "attitude" about dogs. What a doll is Bessie! If all dogs were so well behaved, I certainly would be a dog lover! 😀” Mary Fanelli, Librarian
Chesterfield Senior Center
Spofford Fire Dept., 9 Pontiac Drive, Spofford, NH 03462 - Wednesday, October 9 @ 1:00 p.m.
What a wonderful story of Bessie and her courageous battle with blindness, told in such a heartfelt, sometimes sad, mostly joyful way. Our seniors enjoyed this story told by the author, Tom Farmen, and they also got to know Bessie and Ashley. I know I shed a tear or two as did others but there were also a lot of smiles and laughter. Don't miss meeting this wonderful family. The chocolate chip cookies were delicious! Carole Vogley, Program Coordinator
Warner Fall Festival
Main Street Book Ends, Warner, New Hampshire - Sunday, October 13, 10:00 - 2:00 p.m.
Pine Rock Manor
3 Denny Hill Road, Warner, NH - Wednesday, October 16 @ 6:00 p.m.
Silverstone Living - The Huntington
Nashua, NH - October 17, 2019
Windham Terrace
Windham, NH - October 17, 2019
Wheelock Terrace
Hanover, NH - October 18
“Thank you so much for coming to our assisted living facility today. What a wonderful story!” Jen Warner, staff member
Birch Hill
200 Alliance Way, Manchester, NH - October 22, 2019
Grantham Village School
Grantham, NH - Friday, October 25. 2019
“The students at Grantham Village School were thrilled to meet Bessie this afternoon. By the end of the visit they vowed to BE LIKE BESSIE! After school teachers stopped in to say what an amazing assembly it was. One class talked about it for the remainder of the day. A third teacher, who wasn’t in attendance, overheard kids talking about it during car line dismissal. It was a huge success.” Kathy Buckley, Reading Specialist/E.L.L.
Cavendish Fletcher Community Library
573 Main Street, Proctorsville, VT - Saturday, October 26. 2019
“My husband and I attended your talk in Cavendish on Saturday and enjoyed meeting both you and Bessie. Her story is a beautiful and inspiring one told with humor and love. I am going to make an effort to be more like Bessie.” Kay O’Hare
William A. Bachelder Library
E. Andover, NH - Monday, October 28
“Thanks for coming to Andover, NH. Tom's book and discussion are very inspiring and Bessie gives hope and courage to all.” Nancy Teach, audience member
Tom Farmen, author of Bessie's Story: Watching the Lights Go Out, gave a very well attended discussion and book signing at the Bachelder Library. Patrons ranging in age from 9 to 90 enjoyed Tom's readings and his message to "Be Like Bessie", who despite her blindness lives life to the fullest and enjoys every day. Having Bessie by his side made Tom's presentation all the better. Lee Wells, W.A. Bachelder Library
RiverWoods Exeter
Exeter, New Hampshire - Tuesday, October 29, 2019
“I very much enjoyed your talk as well as the chance to see Bessie. She’s an inspiration to all of us. Thank you for sharing your story.” Alison Angle
Summit By Morrison
56 Summit Drive, Whitefield, NH - Wednesday, November 6, 2019
“The moment the Farmens walked through the door, I felt like was catching up with old friends! Tom, Ashley and of course, Bessie, were phenomenal with our residents at Summit by Morrison (a senior living facility). Listening to Tom speak, it was very evident that this wasn’t about selling books or a speaking fee but had everything to do with sharing a message full of inspiration and value. No matter your age or life circumstances, I guarantee there is something in Bessie’s Story that will resonate.” Tamara Reilly, Resident Services Director, Summit by Morrison, Whitefield, NH
Paul Memorial Library
76 Main Street, Newfields, NH - Wednesday, November 13 @ 6:30 p.m
“Thank you for making the trip to Newfield's and sharing Bessie's story with us! The presentation and Tom's book capture Bessie's indomitable spirit, and the positive and powerful life force within her and reveals the same forces at work in you- her people! I came away from the evening thinking that not only were you blessed to be adopted by Bessie - but also thinking how lucky student's were to have you in their lives -- I feel certain that your positive spirit must have affected those students profoundly. As someone who is facing his 70th decade, I'd like to think that I too can be a bit like Bessie and never give in or give up! I enjoyed your visit and your book very much. Thank you, “ Carl Heidenblad, Director
Equinox Terrace
324 Equinox Terrace Road, Manchester Center, VT - Tuesday, November 19 @ 2:00 pm
“As the Life Enrichment Director for an assisted living center, I was excited for the opportunity to have an author here to present to our residents. We were thrilled with the outcome! We had a packed room with an eager audience, all ready to meet Bessie and learn more about her story. It was touching, funny, inspiring, joyful and motivating! Everyone loved it and buzzed about it for hours afterwards. Thank you Tom, Ashley, and Bessie for giving us such a memorable day!” Tracey Davies
Taylor Community Wolfeboro
66 Taylor Drive, Wolfeboro, NH - Thursday, November 21 @ 2:00 p.m.
“Thanks so much for your presentation today ... Such an inspirational story! Bessie is a Love and it is no surprise as you are both lovely people as well!” Brenda, Resident Director
Rodgers Memorial Library
194 Derry Road, Hudson, NH - Saturday, November 23 @ 2:00 p.m.
“We are so glad we attended your program yesterday. We learned so much from Bessie! She is a hero and a sweetheart for sure. My husband has already read the book! Now it's my turn.” Darthy, audience member
Washington Congregational Church Christmas Craft Fair
at Washington Elementary School, 62 Wolf Way, Washington, NH, Saturday, November 30
Harvest Hill
23 Alice Peck Day Drive, Tuesday, December 3 @ 3:00 p.m.
Dunbar Free Library Presentation @ Town Hall
300 Rte. 10 South, Grantham, NH - Tuesday, December 3 @ 6:30 p.m
“Tom and Bessie are an amazing team! They shared the message that we should all be like Bessie by being strong and courageous, enjoying each day to the fullest,and by being kind and accepting of others. Tom's interactive style is extremely fun and engaging, and we all left feeling truly inspired!” Julie Benson, Programming Asst.
Sugar Hill Retirement Community
83 Rolling Wood Drive, Wolfeboro, NH - Wednesday, December 4 @ 2:00 p.m.
Newbury Public Library @ Veterans Hall
Wednesday, December 11 @ 6 p.m.
“We had a lovely intimate gathering for our author visit with Tom Farmen to discuss his book Bessie’s Story-Watching the Lights Go Out. The star of the book, Bessie, also joined us for the evening, and proved to all of us, through the excerpts from Tom’s book, videos, and interactions with the audience that you can conquer all life throws at you, if you approach it with positivity and perseverance. Tom and his wife Ashley are loving owners who brought us all some valuable lessons from their beloved dog, and the evening was one that left everyone smiling.” Lea McBain, Director
Minot-Sleeper Library
Thursday, December 12, 2019 @6:30 p.m. - Bristol, NH
“On December 12th the Minot-Sleeper Library in Bristol, NH featured a program called “Bessie’s Story”. Bessie’s family related the journey of their sweet chocolate Labrador, Bessie, as she lost her eyesight and learned to navigate life. I really enjoyed the program and loved hearing excerpts from the book, BESSIE'S STORY - Watching the Lights Go Out. This is a great event for people of all ages - a reminder that no matter what hardships you may go through, you can get back on your feet. Bessie is the perfect role model - she may have lost her sight, but she is full of life and brings joy to everyone she meets. I love the quote that Bessie’s family has created: Be Like Bessie! Thank you for sharing your story with us.” Rayanne Lepisto
Barrington Public Library
Thursday, December 19, 2019 @ 5:30 p.m. - Barrington, NH
“Tom, Ashely and Bessie visited our library on a very cold evening, but the warmth that came with them made you quickly forget the frigid temperature! The homemade chocolate chip cookies and Bessie’s personality warmed up the room in no time! There were children using the program space upon their arrival and curiosity was piqued when Bessie came in- Bessie didn’t skip a beat and was amazingly patient and loving with the children (and adults) certain to not miss a belly rub opportunity. Tom even took the time to share a few videos and pictures of Bessie for one little visitor who couldn’t stay for the whole presentation! Tom, Ashley, and Bessie were an absolute delight and Bessie’s story is definitely one for patrons of all ages. Thank you Tom, Ashely and Bessie…may the magic always follow you wherever you may explore.” Melissa Huette, Director
Kearsarge Unitarian Universal Fellowship @ Proctor Stone Chapel
Andover, NH - Sunday, January 5, 2020
“You are awesome, both of you. Today’s program was a source of strength and spiritual awakening Dogs can teach us what’s important in our lives, as well as unconditional love.” Lou Botta, program Director
Taylor Community Laconia
435 Union Ave., Laconia, NH - Wednesday, January 15, 2020
Bugbee Senior Center
262 North Main Street, White River Junction, VT - Friday, January 17, 2020
"Tom's program on Friday, "Bessie's Story, Watching the Lights Go Out" was incredible. Between listening to Tom and watching the video, the audience was mesmerized with the presentation. Of course, everyone was thrilled having Bessie join them for lunch during the discussion." Regina, Activity/Volunteer Coordinator
Sunapee Cove
1250 RTE. 11, Sunapee, NH - Tuesday, January 21, 2020
"Bessie's story and presentation is a very moving and enlightening program. The audience is presented with the life and experiences of Bessie, who is also present, to fully understand what it is like to be sighted and then lose your sight. You will be captivated by the story and you will thoroughly enjoy Bessie." Tony Venti, Exec. Director
Durham Public Library
49 Madbury Road, Durham, NH - Tuesday, January 21, 2020
"Durham Public Library was pleased to host Tom and Ashley Farmen along with their extraordinary dog Bessie this January. Tom's readings from Bessie's Story: Watching the Lights Go Out were poignant and thought-provoking and meeting Bessie was such a joy for all attendees. An inspiring, joyful and highly-recommended program!" Jess Ross, Adult Services Director
Goffstown Public Library
2 High Street, Goffstown, NH - Saturday, January 25, 2020
"I am so grateful you share yourselves and Bessie with the world." Wendy Vaupel, attendee
"The Goffstown Public Library was thrilled to host the team behind Bessie's Story. Tom is a consummate presenter with a gentle voice and a heartfelt message. Community members of all ages enjoyed Bessie's inspiring story, and her vivacious personality! We happily recommend booking this presentation for your library or other community organization." Michelle Sprague Adult Services and Outreach | Library Assistant
Andover Elementary and Middle School
Andover, NH - Monday, January 27, 2020
Hillside Village
95 Wyman Road, Keene, NH - Tuesday, January 28, 2020
"Tom and Ashley Farmen visited Hillside Village to share the heartwarming, inspirational story of Bessie’s journey into total blindness. It was a presentation enjoyed by residents and staff. We're looking forward to having the Farmen family back to Hillside Village again soon. BE LIKE BESSIE!" Lorie Rogers, Director of Community Life Services
Brown Memorial Library
78 West Main St., Bradford, NH - Wednesday, January 29, 2020
“Thank you for sharing your story. People feel such a connection with animals! The kids enjoyed it too, and I’m sure, left with more than they came in with despite their restlessness!” Ellen Barselle, Brown Memorial Library, Bradford, NH
Equinox Village
49 Maple Street, Manchester Center, VT - Thursday, January 30, 2020
“Thank you, again, for such a lovely talk. It was a pleasure to meet you, Thomas and Bessie!” Kylee Ryan, Wellness & Activities Director, Equinox Village, Manchester Center, VT
Cedar Hill
49 Cedar Hill Drive, Windsor, VT - Friday, January 31, 2020
“To our new friends - Ashley, Thomas and of course Bessie, The Village at Cedar Hill thanks you for sharing the many messages throughout your heartfelt description of Bessie’s journey. I saw smiles and tears with lots of hugs for Bessie. Keep us posted on her. We all fell in love with her.” Ruth Barton, Activity Director
Newport Senior Center
76 South Main Street, Newport, NH - Thursday, February 20, 2020
"Thank you so much! Shared the pictures and have also have been a PR person for you and Bessie! The book stays in my Goodie bag and the Goodie bag is usually tagging along with me. Years ago it was my Schnauzer, Skylee. So enjoyed the presentation and look forward to attending another one with my Wild Women group! They already feel like they know Bessie! Thank you again! Happy days to you and Bessie as you share your Happiness!" Brenda Gauthier, attendee
Heritage Heights
149 East Side Drive, Concord, NH - Thursday, February 27, 2020
"Tom, Bessie and Ashley visited our retirement community in February to tell us about Bessie’s Story. I wasn’t sure how the program would be received. Many people want to promote their book and come read excerpts from it. I was truly impressed from the very start and continued to be impressed until the end.
Not only was this program very engaging, it had a meaningful and uplifting message. The way it was presented was top notch. Being a senior audience, you never really know what is going to keep people’s attention. Tom kept everyone’s attention and the photos displayed on the screen were a bonus and fitting for each piece that he read. Having Bessie with them was icing on the cake. Everyone at our community would highly recommend this program.”
Susan Edge Programs Coordinator
“I just want to say that the 2nd time I heard Bessie's story was as wonderful as the first! What an inspirational story, one which makes you stop and say - What do I
have to complain about?" B. Clark, attendee
Maxfield Public Library
8 Route 129, Loudon, NH - Friday, February 28, 2020
Gilford Public Library
31 Potter Hill Road, Gilford, NH - Tuesday, March 3, 2020
“Tom, Ashley, and Bessie visited the library for a discussion and book talk and we were so glad to have them. They are the kindest people, and Bessie is an absolute sweetheart. Tom was a wonderful presenter, and our patrons really enjoyed the program. Thank you again, we loved having you all! Kayleigh Thomas, Assistant Librarian
Derry Public Library
64 East Broadway, Derry, NH - Wednesday, March 4, 2020
“Bessie’s Story is a wonderful, inspiring program that’s perfect for any library and any age group! Our patrons loved Tom’s message and Bessie’s determination. And everyone, including the staff, loved meeting Bessie- what a star!” Liz Ryan, Adult Programming Coordinator
Adventures In Learning, Colby Sawyer College, NH
Zoom Presentation, July 22, 2020
“Thank you so very much for such a wonderful presentation via Zoom . You did a fantastic job, just wonderful. I know that everyone enjoyed the videos, slide show and your reading from the book!” Nina Tasi, Program Coordinator, Adventures In Learning @ Colby Sawyer College, NH
Fidelity Management Resources Corporation
Zoom Presentation, August 20, 2020
“Absolutely outstanding work today!!! I am getting flooded with thank you messages about how touched people were. Looking forward to figuring out if we can arrange a “part II” next year.” Jeffery Peterson, Program Coordinator
Hill Library
1151 Parker Mountain Road, Strafford, NH - Saturday, September 26, 2020 @ 1:00 p.m.
Grantham Village School, Zoom Presentation
Wednesday, October 7 @ 9:00 a.m.
Smith Memorial Congregational Church
30 West Main St., Hillsborough, NH - Wednesday, October 28 @ 7:00 p.m.
“It was a wonderful and inspiring time together. Thank you for sharing the gift of Bessie with all of us. Indeed if we could all be like Bessie!” Donna Vuilleumier, Pastor
Hooksett Library Zoom Presentation
Hookset NH - Thursday, November 19 @ 7:00 p.m.
“Your program was fantastic and you were a pleasure to work with! I smiled and smiled, and I really appreciated the tie-in with your student being the catalyst.” Anne Meyers, Adult Information Services Librarian
Tenney Grammar School Zoom Presentation
Wednesday, November 25
“Dear Mr. Farmen, Thank you so much for sharing Bessie’s Story. I thought that Bessie was so smart and super cute, and I wish the best for her.” Brianna, 6th grader
Hampstead Public Library
9 Mary E. Clark Drive, Hampstead, NH
Thursday, June 17 @ 6:30 p.m.
Bedford Falls Assisted Living
5 Corporate Drive, Bedford, NH
Wednesday, June 23 @ 1:30 p.m
“Our residents enjoyed a fun, engaging, thought-provoking, heart-warming and entertaining visit from Bessie, Tom and Ashley. A five-star presentation, we laughed and cried - I wouldn't hesitate to recommend this program!” Jennifer Carroll, Program Director
Fiske Free Library
108 Broad Street, Claremont, NH
Thursday, July 1 @ 5:30 p.m.
Plaistow Public Library
85 Main Street, Plaistow, NH
Thursday, July 15 @ 6:00 p.m.
“It was a pleasure to have Bessie, Tom and Ashley visit the Plaistow Public LIbrary. Bessie is truly inspiring.” Jennifer Dawley, Director of Youth Services
Crescent Lake Association
Sunday, July 18 @ 10:00 a.m.
An attendee's comment: "Wonderful way to spend a Sunday morning! This inspiring presentation should be heard far and wide. Thank you Tom, Ashley and Bessie for sharing your experience of loving this wonderful dog!"
Tewksbury Public Library
Zoom Presentation, Wednesday, July 28 @ 7:00 p.m.
“It was a wonderful presentation. You did a great job. Very inspirational story. Give my best to Bessie!” Robert Hayes, Community Outreach Librarian & Head of Technical Services
Summit By Morrison
6 Terrace St., Whtefield, NH
Wednesday, August 4 @ 2:00 p.m.
“Thank you so much for the presentation yesterday and sending along the great pictures. Residents and staff thoroughly enjoyed the presentation and meeting Bessie. I can’t wait to start on the book.” Alyssa Scott, Summit Life Enrichment
Heywood Wakefield Commons
50 Pine St., Gardner, MA
Thursday, August 5, 2021 @ 2:00 p.m.
"Tom, Ashley and Bessie - Thank you so much for making the trip to see us today! I’m glad we got to finally meet you all. It was an uplifting hour or so, by all accounts. I can’t wait to read the whole story. Be well and Be Like Bessie." Donna See, Activity Director, Heywood Wakefield Commons
Dover Public Library
73 Locust Street, Dover, NH
Thursday, September 30, 2021 @ 6:30 p.m.
“Thank you for the wonderful message of finding joy in the midst of difficult situations. COVID-19 has made life feel so isolated and created divides that seem hard to overcome. But tonight we heard the heart-warming story of how a dog slowly going blind brought inspiration to her owners, who then decided to share that inspiration with others in the form of the book ‘Bessie's Story: Watching the Lights Go Out.’ Bessie charmed everyone in the room, especially when she performed what seemed to be a magic trick for a treat. I left the presentation feeling hopeful and wanting to ‘Be like Bessie.’ Thank you for sharing Bessie and her story!” Susan Dunker, Adult Services Librarian
University Of Vermont Osher Lifelong Learning Institute
Nolin Murray Center, 38 Pleasant St., Springfield, VT
Tuesday, October 5, 2021 .
“Tom’s skills as a teacher led our OLLI audience through the engaging story of Bessie and her "‘people family’ of adapting to the changes in her world. Tom’s thoughtful writing in his book, and his presentation, are so appropriate to share with all of us as guidelines to help us age gracefully and with optimism, as Bessie has done.” Marita Johnson, Springfield OLLI Facilitator.
Thompson Center
99 Senior Center Lane, Woodstock, VT
Wednesday, October 6, 2021
“I knew we would fall in love with Bessie at first sight, and then to hear her inspiring story presented so eloquently by Tom and Ashley was a gift. Tom and Ashley were destined to take this journey with their beloved pup while sharing her remarkable life story with compassion, joy and humor. Bessie’s Joie de Vivre is a lesson for all of us.” Pamela Butler, Program Director
Cabbot Park Village
280 Newtonville Ave., Newtonville, MA
Wednesday, October 13, 2021
"I’m very blessed to have met Bessie and her family and learn from her heartfelt story. Just finished reading Watching the Lights Go Out and loved it. I hope everyone gets a chance to read Bessie’s Story. There is nothing like having the privilege of love and devotion from a loyal friend." Jo-Ann Boujoulian, Director of Business Administration
Lyon Brook
332 Parkside Road, New London, NH
Tuesday, October 19, 2021 @ 2:00 p.m.
Kearsarge Regional Middle School
Sutton New Hampshire
Tuesday, October 26, 2021
“How fortunate KRMS was to have Tom, Ashley and their beloved, Bessie, a 12 year old chocolate lab, come to share Bessie’s story with the sixth graders. Bessie was a magnet to the students. Her story, shared by Tom, tied into the theme of resiliency in our Advisory classes. Bessie loss of her sight exemplifies true resilience when challenged by her disability. The messages: accepting weaknesses and appreciating our differences, have left an imprint on our students. We can all Be Like Bessie.” Heidi Clark, Teacher
chichester town Library
Chichester, NH, November 3, 2021
“A night of inspirational delight brought to you by the beautiful chocolate lab, Bessie. She may have lost her eyesight but she still has her heart of gold. This great presentation by Tom and his dog Bessie left me with a tear in my eye but with great joy, too! Only animals can give this kind of love! Thank you.” Caroline Pynes, Librarian, Chichester NH Town Library
Epsom Public Library
1606 Dover Road, Epsom, NH
Monday, November 15, 2021
“Epsom Public Library was so excited to welcome Tom and his amazing companion, Bessie...and wow!! The night sure did not disappoint. I think it is safe to say that all who attended were moved in some way. Tom said he tries to find the words to communicate what Bessie would say if she could talk, and it seems to us that he does an admirable job of that... engaging his audience with a fantastic story of life, growing up/older, and learning from each other. Thanks Tom and Bessie!!” Kaitlyn Camidge, Library Director
Wheelock Terrace
Hanover, NH
Monday, November 22
kearsarge Unitarian Universal Fellowship
Andover, NH on the Proctor Academy Campus
Sunday, December 5, 2021
The Village At White River Junction
White River Junction, VT
Wednesday, December 8, 2021 @ 1:00 p.m.
Woodstock Terrace
456 Woodstock Road, Woodstock, VT
Friday, December 17, 2021 @ 2:00 p.m.
"What a truly beautiful and inspirational book Tom Farmen has written!! I was lucky enough to meet Tom, his beautiful wife and the wonderful, amazing Bessie!! The seniors I work with were so happy and overjoyed to listen to a presentation about Bessie, and her human's journey with her from puppyhood to learning of her future blindness and never giving up. She is an inspiration to everyone she meets Her story gives hope and I highly recommend this book!" Meg Johnson, Activities Assistant, Woodstock Terrace, VT
Valley Terrace
2820 Christian Street, White River Junction, VT
Friday, January 28, 2022 @ 2:00 p.m
Addison Place Glastonbury
1177 Hebron Avenue
January 31, 2022 @ 2:00 p.m.
Springfield Town Library
43 Main Street, Springfield, VT
Tuesday, February 8 @ 6:00 p.m.
Northern Essex Community College
Wednesday, April 20, 2022 @ 11: 30 a.m.
100 Elliott St. Haverhill, MA
OSHER Life-Long Learning Institute
Catamount Arts
115 Eastern Ave., St. Johnsbury, VT
Thursday, April 28, 2022 @ 1:30 p.m.
Abbott Library
11 Soonipi Circle, Sunapee, NH
Tuesday, May 3, 2022 @ 3:15 (grades K-1) / Thursday, May 5, 2022 @ 3:15 (grades 2-3)
Lunch And Learn
Colby Sawyer College, New London, NH
Wednesday, May 18, 2022 @ 12:00 noon
Fisher Elementary School
Manchester, VT
Tuesday, May 24, 2022
“All three of you did a fantastic job yesterday with the students. I walked through a few classrooms and saw several water bottles with Bessie's stickers on them:) I also made a pointer to use in the library as a reminder to them to Be like Bessie." Meghan Maguire, Librarian
Rockingham Library
65 Westminster St., Bellows Falls, VT
Thursday, June 16, 2022 @ 6 p.m.
Seabury
200 Seabury Drive, Bloomfield, CT
Friday, June 17 @ 1:00 - 4:00 p.m.
Havenwood Heritage Heights
33 Christian Ave., Concord, NH
Monday, June 20 @ 2:00 p.m.
Adventures in Learning
Colby Sawyer College, New London, NH
June 21, 28, July 5 2022
Sunapee Cove
1250 Route 11 Sunapee, NH
Tuesday, November 8, 2022 @ 2:00 p.m.
RiverWoods Manchester
200 Alliance Way, Manchester, NH
Friday, November 11 @ 3:00 'p.m.
Summercrest Senior Living Community
Newport, NH November 15, 2022
Kendal at Hanover
Hanover, New Hampshire
Tuesday, December 13 @ 3:00 p.m.
Piper Shores
Scarborough, Maine
January 4, 2023
Kearsarge Regional Middle School
Sutton, NH
Friday, January 27, 2023
“The kids cannot stop talking about Bessie! We did a follow up during our Flex period and compared Bethany Hamilton (surfer who had her arm bitten off by a shark) and went on to compete and win all kinds of titles. So many similarities! We also did a follow up in my ELA (English Language Arts) classes writing similes using Bessie. Today was a lesson the kids will remember the rest of their lives. Thank you from the bottom of our hearts, from all of us at KRMS.” Heidi Rousseau, Language Arts Teacher
